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WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME

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LIFESTYLE by KRISS on 23 november 2015

WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME If you think about it, there is never a good time to start a project that changes everything, requires courage or dare and has been too matured as a dream.
We all have (most) projects or dreams we care about, even go halfway searching, investigating, safely hidden behind our computers but when it comes to taking the first step and actually do something, there is always an excellent reason not to do so ! Haven’t you noticed how coward most of us get when it comes to taking action.
We simply chicken out and start making excuses.
And when you start pointing them out loud they make perfect sense ! Probably a lot more sense than the few reasons you may have imagined for your dream or project.

In a word, it will never be the right time to start anything risky if you put too much though into it.
The only way to make a dream project come true is to stop intellectualizing it at some point and accept that you are probably making a mistake but that what will come out of that mistake will most likely outweighs the mistake itself.
If you are sure about this previous statement regarding your dream, go ahead and do it because if you don’t, it will never be the right time.
Family and friends will talk you out of it for your own good if you haven’t talked yourself out of it before.
Just remember that when a strong desire of yours that impacts tremendously your life becomes an obsession, you have no other option but to act upon it anyway.
That is either suppress the obsession but this is unlikely to succeed and you’ll just postpone the issue or go ahead, rationalize a bit, secure as much as you can and then stop all form of mental self torture.
Believe in yourself and in the greater outcome !

Taking our own personal example, we set 2 projects into action these last years : quitting the lives of resentment we had including, house, jobs, country, to get back to being true to ourselves and stop complaining about things we could change if we accepted the change.
Then having set that in motion, we decided to go have a look around the world for ourselves, probably knowing at some point, we would only find ourselves and our true desire for settlement.
Things never happen the way you intend them to but deep inside you always know more or less what you came in to find.
And if there are many roads leading to the same conclusion, maybe setting one of your dreams in motion can help you achieve that.


Be careful though not to mistake fantasies for dreams, the latter can be constructive while the other most of the time is destructive !

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